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Sunday, June 14, 2009

Carnie Wilson expected to give birth to second daughter today


Newlywed Game host Carnie Wilson is giving birth today, RadarOnline.com has learned exclusively.

The 41 year-old singer turned game show host is having her second child via planned c-section at a Los Angeles area hospital.

Carnie, whose well-known battles with obesity have included gastric bypass surgery in the late 90s, is learning toward naming the baby Luciana, an insider tells RadarOnline.com. Yes, it’s a girl!

The former member of ‘90s pop trio Wilson-Phillips and daughter of legendary Beach Boy Brian Wilson has four-year old daughter Lola with husband/rock guitarist Ron Bonfiglio.

Tuesday, February 24, 2009

Celebrities that have had weight loss surgery











1. Roseanne Barr
Roseanne Barr had gastric bypass surgery in 1998, and eventually lost over 80 pounds. She also underwent breast reduction surgery to help her deal with back pain, which also contributed to her slimmer profile.

2. Randy Jackson
American Idol judge Randy Jackson underwent gastric bypass in 2003 and has lost 110 pounds since. A type 2 diabetes diagnosis was the impetus for his decision to undergo the surgery. At his height Jackson weighed 355 pounds.

3. Star Jones
Star Jones denied for years that she had underwent gastric bypass surgery, pointedly denying the rumors whenever asked. However, she changed her tune in a Glamour magazine interview in 2007, revealing that she had used the surgery to lose 160 pounds.

4. Diego Maradona
Despite being a former professional soccer player, Diego Maradona had a tendency towards putting on weight. In 2005 he underwent gastric bypass, and subsequently slimmed down very rapidly.

5. Sharon Osbourne
Sharon Osbourne had gastric bypass surgery in 1999 and lost over 100 pounds. Osbourne told People magazine last year that she was planning on reversing the surgery, and wanted to rely on psychotherapy to control her eating issues.

6. John Popper
John Popper is best known for his role in the band Blues Traveler. They had some hits in the 90’s (loved the Wizard of Oz inspired video for Run Around) before kind of falling off the map. Popper was always a pretty big guy, and he had surgery to alleviate that after having a severe heart attack brought on by years of overeating. He lost over 200 pounds, about half of his old body weight.

7. Anne Rice
Famous author Anne Rice had gastric bypass back in 2003 as a result of severe sleep apnea and other weight related problems. She lost 125 pounds following the surgery.

8. Al Roker
Al Roker was always a famous big man, but he managed to lose over 100 pounds after having gastric bypass surgery in 2002. His waist size quickly dropped from a 54 to a 40.

9. Charlie Weis
Charlie Weis, head football coach at Notre Dame, underwent gastric bypass surgery in 2002 due to fears that his weight would keep him from being considered for big name coaching positions. The surgery was a failure (Weis bled internally for 30 hours, undiagnosed), and Weis has sued his doctors. It worked out however, as Weis got the Notre Dame job despite still being quite obese.

10. Carnie Wilson
Carnie Wilson is one of the bigger gastric bypass success stories that you will find. The former Wilson Phillips singer had always been big, but after undergoing surgery in 1999 she proceeded to lose over 150 pounds.


Quick Look at Weight Loss Surgery in the United States
The popularity of weight loss surgery has grown steadily over the years. There was a 755 percent increase in the number of weight loss surgeries performed in the United States between 1995 (20,000) and 2005 (171,000).

Most of these bariatric surgeries fall into one of two categories: gastric bypass surgery and restrictive banding surgery. Variations on gastric bypass surgery, including the roux-en-y gastric bypass procedure , are currently the most popular weight loss surgeries in the United States. Restrictive banding surgeries, specifically LAP-BAND® System surgery , are more popular overseas, but are gaining popularity in the United States.

Which Celebrity Had Which Weight Loss Surgery?
Many people are interested in knowing which celebrities have undergone which bariatric surgery procedures. Here’s DocShop’s breakdown

Gastric Bypass Surgery
Today, many types of gastric bypass surgeries, like the popular roux-en-y procedure, involve the combination of surgically bypassing a section of the intestines with the creation of a pouch (essentially, a smaller stomach). This type of bariatric surgery is associated with faster weight loss, but can be more expensive and harder to reverse than a gastric banding procedure.

Celebrities who have had traditional gastric bypass weight loss surgery include :

Star Jones (TV personality)
Carnie Wilson (singer in Wilson Phillips, TV personality)
Al Roker (weatherman on Today Show, author)
John Popper (lead singer of Blues Traveler, songwriter)
Michael Genadry (actor)
The Fobi Pouch method is a variation of the roux-en-y gastric bypass procedure, which uses a band to divide the stomach, creating a smaller pouch.

Celebrities who underwent the Fobi Pouch method of gastric bypass surgery include :

Randy Jackson (American Idol judge, musician, record producer)
Roseanne Barr (actress, comedienne)
Etta James (singer)
Jo Marie Payton (actress)
Jennifer Holliday (singer, actress)
LAP-BAND® System Surgery
Unlike gastric bypass surgery, the LAP-BAND® System does not reroute the intestines. Instead, a silicone band is used to create a small pouch at the top of the stomach. Although not as popular in the United States as gastric bypass surgery, LAP-BAND® System surgery is typically less expensive and is both adjustable and reversible.

Celebrities who have had LAP-BAND® surgery include :

Sharon Osbourne (TV personality, music manager/promoter, wife of Ozzy Osbourne)
Ann Wilson (lead singer of the rock band Heart)
Khaliah Ali (fashion designer, author, daughter of Muhammad Ali)
Joe Gannascoli (actor)
Brian Dennehy (actor)
Anne Diamond (British TV personality)
Mikey Robbins (Australian media personality)
Full Disclosure, Acknowledgement, or Denial
When celebrities radically transform their appearance, the public usually wants to know how they did it. Did the celebrity have surgery? Use diet pills? Work out with a trainer for hours at a time?

Almost Too Much Information
Numerous celebrities are willing to disclose that they had surgery. Some announce the surgery through a media outlet or even place the weight loss surgery at center stage. For example, Carnie Wilson had a live Internet broadcast of her gastric bypass surgery in 1999. After going from a size 28 to a size 6, Wilson showed off her new physique by posing for Playboy.

Willing to Share
Not quite as upfront as Carnie Wilson, after initially hiding the fact that he was going to have the surgery, Al Roker allowed a video segment surrounding his gastric bypass surgery to be aired on Dateline. By the time the segment aired, the Today Show weatherman had already lost about 100 pounds.

Other celebrities will acknowledge they underwent surgery if asked, but won't go out of their way to talk about it. Many times, once the weight loss surgery is made public knowledge, a celebrity will be featured in a magazine article or on the website of the surgeon who performed the procedure. Roseanne Barr, America Idol's Randy Jackson, Etta James, and Jo Marie Payton have all been featured in weight loss articles and on the websites of the bariatric surgeons who performed their surgeries.

Deny, Deny, Deny
Some celebrities and public figures will outright deny that they have undergone weight loss surgery. Star Jones, a former member of The View and current host of Star Jones, underwent gastric bypass surgery in the summer of 2003. For the next several years, when asked in interviews if she had undergone weight loss surgery, she said that she had not. Finally, in September 2007, she admitted in Glamour magazine that she had had gastric bypass surgery.

Currently, there is speculation that former Arkansas governor and current hopeful for the Republican presidential nomination Mike Huckabee has undergone some form of bariatric surgery. Huckabee's 100-plus-pound weight loss in less than two years has led many to believe that he must have turned to weight loss surgery. The presidential hopeful denies that he has had surgery and attributes his weight loss to healthy eating habits and exercise.

Is Keeping the Weight Off Easier for Celebrities?
Although weight loss surgery helps take weight off, many people have difficulty keeping that weight off. Some estimates state that about 5 percent of weight loss surgery patients gain back the weight.

How do celebrities fair in this equation? Is it easier for them to keep the weight off because they have the money for trainers, nutritionists, and private chefs? Not necessarily.

Keeping It Off
In many cases, celebrities who have undergone bariatric surgery are able to maintain their weight loss. In the three years since her gastric bypass surgery, Star Jones has lost and kept off 160 pounds. Music legend Etta James loss 200 pounds after her surgery a few years ago and seems to have kept it off.

Struggling with Weight Again
Sharon Osbourne lost over 100 pounds after her LAP-BAND® surgery in 1999; however, in 2006 she announced on the Howard Stern Show that she gained 15 pounds back in the previous year and was having the band removed.

After losing at least 100 pounds, it appears that a back surgery in 2005 has sparked a gradual weight gain for Al Roker.

Still Fighting
Although she is still an avid weight-loss advocate, Carnie Wilson regained some of the 150 pounds that she had lost after giving birth to her daughter in 2005. In 2006, she became a contestant on Celebrity Fit Club and lost 22 pounds during the show.

Carnie Wilson and many other celebrities know that they will constantly need to maintain a healthy diet and exercise program in order to keep off the weight they lost through surgery.

Thursday, February 05, 2009

Who is the single mother the octuplets + 6 more?







Maybe she watched Jon and Kate +8 one too many times. Perhaps she thought she could out do the Duggars? Who knows but after reading the story below, I have to admit, something just seems wrong about the whole situation.
You can read what I think about the Duggars here;

I actually like to watch Jon and Kate + 8 because they are human. I knew Kate was an Aries before she revealed her birth date on the show because I could see myself in some of her actions (the obsessive cleanliness and order most especially). I like that the kids are shown running a muck and that the parents are shown disagreeing and frustrated at times. That is the reality of life. It isn't all flowers and sunshine. I think Nadya missed those moments on that show or down played them in her mind because they are there and they are there for a reason, to let the viewer know it is HARD WORK. I only wish the show gave more details about their budgets and daily schedule as I bet that would shock the average viewer or at least take some of the glamour out of it. I only hope this will encourage fertility doctors to do better screening in the future. I can't imagine who approved Nadya knowing she had six other children! Also, reports have surfaced that she is upset that she isn't getting the endorsement offers and free products she expected?!? What is she going to name these kids anyway? Huggies, Gerber, Fisher, and Price, etc?
As if the California department of Social Services ( all child protection services really!) didn't already have a big enough caseload!

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Kate Gosselin Says Octuplet Mother Nadya Suleman Went too Far
By The Staff at wowOwow.com

Kate Gosselin, star of TLC’s popular reality show "Jon & Kate Plus 8," knows from big, chaotic families. As the title of her show suggests, Gosselin’s the proud mother of eight children — a set of twins and sextuplets — that she and husband Jon care for with a mix of teamwork, efficiency and a whole lot of love.
Like Nadya Suleman, the unmarried California mother of six who just gave birth to eight babies, the Gosselins used fertility drugs to conceive their big family — but they knew when to stop. Though she has no regrets, Gosselin thinks unemployed Suleman went too far and today offered some harsh words via the New York Post. Here are some highlights:
Q: Do you think Nadya did the right thing in having these octuplets, after already having six children?
Kate: I believe that every life that is created has a purpose. However, personally, I would never have set out to even have a seventh child — especially if I was a single parent!
Q: Nadya is not married, and there’s no father that we know of. Is this a problem?
Kate: Absolutely. The workload that Jon and I share is often even too much for us! It is unimaginable the amount of work she will have to bear as a single mother raising eight preemies as well as six other children.
Q: Do you think Nadya is cognizant of what’s in store for her?
Kate: No. I can honestly say that no amount of planning ahead prepared me for what I faced. And in comparison, I had three-year-old twins and six preemies … and a helpful husband. And we struggled in every way — physically, emotionally and financially.
Q: How do you think this will affect her other children?
Kate: There will be various reactions, ranging from helpfulness, involvement to resentment of the complete chaos and lack of attention the older six will now receive.
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Is California Octuplets' Mother Trying to Outdo the Duggars?
January 31, 2009 by

What motivated the 33-year-old mother of the California octuplets to reproduce like a rabbit? Is the California octuplets mother trying to outdo the Duggars? You know who the Duggars are, right? Michelle Duggar has given birth to 18 kids including twins, but the Duggars did not have fertility help. The Duggars want more kids. I wonder if the California octuplets mother wants more kids yet. I wouldn't put that past her; she already has six other kids including twins, all under age 8! The California octuplets mother is insane!At first, I thought this was an infertile, childless couple desperate for kids who decided upon hormone injections or hormone pills, that stimulate ovarian production of eggs. And by chance, eight eggs were produced and were fertilized inside her body. But that's not the story. The California octuplets mother had in vitro fertilization: eight eggs were fertilized outside the womb and then implanted into her! Plus, she has six other kids! I'm also hearing that the California octuplets mom lives with her own mother and is financially strapped. Yes, I bet she envies the Duggars and she's trying to emulate the Duggars and their 18 kids.Well, there's a huge difference between this so-far nameless mother of octuplets, and Michelle Duggar. Michelle Duggar was married before having her first child. Michelle Duggar conceived naturally. The Duggars have always been financially secure. In fact, the Duggars are stinkin' rich. Finally, the Duggars have had one baby at a time, with the exception of their twins.The California octuplets mother willfully, purposefully and consciously had eight embryos implanted into her. Now, in vitro fertilization has risks; often, not all of the implanted embryos "take," and a spontaneous abortion occurs. This is why with in vitro fertilization, several embryos are usually implanted. But EIGHT ? Who's the mad doctor who did this? Why not five or four? Any doctor knows that the odds of all eight being born without medical problems are astronomical to 1.Never mind that reportedly, the octuplets are doing great and seven no longer need supplemental oxygen. At the time those eight embryos were implanted, nobody had a crystal ball.Why would a woman, already with six kids, seek in vitro fertilization anyways? Secondly, if the California octuplets mother is financially strapped, where did she get the money for in vitro fertilization? Unless she put it on several credit cards? The cost of diapers has been estimated at $500 per MONTH. Did the California octuplets mother have a team of nannies lined up to help her with the kids before she had the embryos implanted? Or did the California octuplets mother believe only four of the embryos would "take" ?
And where's daddy in all this?
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Veil about to be lifted on octuplets' mystery mom
By JOHN ROGERS – 2 hours ago
WHITTIER, Calif. (AP) — Reporters from all over the map have camped outside her doorstep and surrounded the hospital where she gave birth to eight healthy babies last week, but people still don't know much about Nadya Suleman. That's about to change.
After managing to avoid reporters as she left the hospital Thursday morning, Suleman headed for her first interview, with Ann Curry of NBC's "Today" show. One of the octuplets mother's hastily hired publicists said she is staying at "an undisclosed location" while she considers offers including possible book and TV deals.
NBC News spokeswoman Megan Kopf said Suleman was not paid for the interview. An air-date announcement was expected later Thursday.
Not even a photo of Suleman has emerged and public records shed little light on her. The 33-year-old single mother, who now has 14 children under the age of 8, has used different names over the years and has been married and divorced once.
State documents disclosed Thursday to The Associated Press show that she received more than $165,000 in disability payments for a back injury suffered during a riot at the mental-health hospital where she worked. The payments were made between 2002 and 2008, during which time Suleman gave birth to most of her six other children.
The documents, provided to the AP on Thursday following a public records request to the Department of Mental Health, also show that Suleman had three miscarriages before she first became a mother.
Neighbors say that while Suleman is quick to smile and wave to them, she generally keeps to herself.
"She's a very pretty woman and, yes, she's very friendly when I see her," said Thelma Steinweg, who said Suleman moved next door on the quiet, narrow cul de sac about three years ago.
"But I usually only see her going in or out of her house or on the steps, shouting at the kids when they're playing in the yard," Steinweg added.
As she spoke she glanced at Suleman's small front yard, littered with children's toys. A child's car seat sat propped up near the front door. From the front porch, Suleman's mother could be heard inside, singing to a crying child.
While Suleman, whose 14 children were conceived by in vitro fertilization, declined to speak publicly for days, she has come under criticism from TV and radio commentators, bloggers and others who have accused her of irresponsibly having more children than she appears prepared to care for. Some have accused her of having the octuplets in an effort to cash in with a TV or book deal.
Although her publicists acknowledge she is reviewing such offers, one of her friends said she simply loves children and didn't get pregnant for profit.
"She's not even interested in that right now," said Jessica Zepeda, who lives down the street. "It's funny and sad in a way, there's a lot of people saying really negative things and they don't know her."
Suleman's mother said she expects people's opinions to change when her daughter goes public with her story.
"She's a very likable person," said Angela Suleman, who spoke briefly with a reporter on her doorstep Wednesday. "She's basically normal except for this obsession she's always had with children."
Nadya Suleman, who public records show has held a license as a mental health technician, was listed on the payroll of Metropolitan State Hospital in Norwalk from 1997 until last year. State records show that for much of that time, she was unable to work.
She was injured at the hospital on Sept. 18, 1999, during a riot of 20 patients. While restraining a patient, she was struck in the back by a desk hurled by another patient.
During an August 2008 exam, Dr. Steven Nagelberg attributed 90 percent of her injury to the work incident and 10 percent to her pregnancy.
An August 2001 psychological evaluation in her workers' compensation file said Suleman had three miscarriages before having a baby. When Suleman learned that she was pregnant with her first child, the report quotes her as saying, "It's the most wonderful, best thing that's ever happened in my life."
Suleman's mother said her daughter hasn't worked since soon after becoming pregnant with her octuplets. She has also had to discontinue her pursuit of a master's degree at California State University, Fullerton, where she earned a bachelor's degree in child care development.
"She may not be able to finish her master's degree now and she was so close to wrapping it up," her mother said Wednesday.
Nadya Suleman's publicist Mike Furtney said she has told him it's her dream to eventually earn a Ph.D. in some field involving counseling.
Furtney said Suleman is "feeling great" and looking forward to being reunited with her octuplets, who are expected to remain in the hospital for several more weeks.
"She's happy to be out of the hospital, although she misses her children," he said. "She can't wait until they join her."
The octuplets were born nine weeks prematurely and will be released from the hospital individually as they hit a near-normal newborn weight.
"At this point in their development, they are not mature enough to coordinate the suckling and swallowing at the same time to be bottle-fed," said Dr. Mandhir Gupta, the hospital's neonatologist.
According to Steinweg, Suleman initially thought only six of the eight embryos she had implanted in her womb last year had survived. She learned later in her pregnancy that seven had. She was surprised again on the day she gave birth to learn there were actually eight. Born Jan. 26, the children are now the longest known surviving octuplets in history.
It still isn't clear who their father is, or who fathered Suleman's other six children, who range in age from 2 to 7.
Suleman listed a David Solomon as the father on the birth certificates for her first four children but gave a different birthday for him on each certificate and listed both Israel and California as his place of birth. He could not be located for comment.
She listed no father on the birth certificates for her fifth and sixth children, twins born in 2006.
Suleman herself has been known by different names over the years, including Natalie Suleman, Natalie Gutierrez, Nadya Gutierrez and Nadya Doud.
Suleman was married to Marcos Gutierrez in 1996 and was divorced last year, according to public records. Gutierrez did not return calls to numbers listed for him, and his divorce lawyer, Roberto Gil, declined to comment.
Divorce papers state the couple split up in 2000 and had no children, although Suleman had given birth to her first six children by the time the divorce was finalized.
Public records show Suleman's father has used the last names Doud and Suleman. Her parents married in Las Vegas in 1974 and divorced in 1999. Suleman was their only child.
Associated Press writers Shaya Tayefe Mohajer and Thomas Watkins contributed to this story.

The Girls next door dish about their "diet"?!?! habits


This has to be an act, okay maybe not, I did see Kendra Wilkinson's interview on Chelsea Lately and to say she had Chelsea practically pulling her hair out trying to get a decent interview is putting it mildly. Maybe Kendra is really that much of an air head but for some reason, I always thought that Bridget Marquardt was the more intelligent of the three. I am questioning my logic about that after reading this interview. This interview reads like a joke except it isn't funny because they are serious. They claim to eat chips and Egg Mc Muffins practically everyday! Who really believes this?

The Girls Next Door stars Bridget Marquardt, 35, and Kendra Wilkinson, 23, interview each other in Us Weekly on everything from cravings ("I'm addicted to nonfat caramel macchiatos from Starbucks!" admits Marquardt) to wedding plans (Wilkinson is saying "I Do" to Philadelphia Eagle Hank Baskett on June 27). Check out Us Weekly's exclusive chat with Hugh Hefner's exes (who are also featured in new book The Girls Next Door: Up Close and Personal) below:
Bridget Marquardt: Kendra, just think of me as Barbara Walters okay?
Kendra Wilkinson: Noooo!
BM: Okay, okay. Who else could I be? Oh! I'm an ESPN reporter.
KW: No, no! Who's that chick?
BM: I'm Robin Meade from CNN.
KW: Oh, she's hot!
BM: Yeah she is! Okay, I'm Robin Meade from CNN and [in a serious 'reporter' voice] I need to know what do you eat in a typical day? Do you have breakfast, lunch and dinner, all three? Do you snack in between?
KW: [Kendra gets nervous and starts laughing] Wait! Wait! Can I get Bridget back please?
BM: Okay, okay. What did you have for breakfast this morning?
KW: For breakfast this morning, I had Cheerios, soymilk and a bowl of fruit with strawberries, bananas, apples and oranges. And I had coffee.
BM: Do you typically have breakfast?
KW: Every day. It feels so weird to me if I don't have that.
BM: I thought you used to have apples and peanut butter in the morning?
KW: I do! I have peanut butter because I have apples in my fruit bowl, I dip it in peanut butter. So bowl of fruit with apples, oranges, bananas, strawberries and coffee. What about you?
BM: I don't eat breakfast. I have coffee with a little bit of vanilla creamer in it and that's my breakfast. I'm not hungry typically when I wake up in the morning so my first meal of the day is lunch and it's usually a late lunch. I get hungry later in the day.
KW: Really?
BM: I have lunch around 1:30.
KW: I'm all, "Really?" I know this because I see your trays in the hallway (laughing).
BM: I don't eat lunch until 1:30 or 2 and then that varies. I'll either go out to lunch if I have a meeting, or I'll eat at the mansion. I'm hooked on BLTs all of a sudden. I love to have a BLT.
KW: Me too! I love BLTs! I love BLTs with cheese and chips in it! I could seriously eat a sandwich, I could just have a toasted sourdough with chips in it, and I'll be fine. That'll be my sandwich.
BM: That's yummy. Is that what you typically eat for lunch?
KW: Yeah, I love the crunchiness. I need, like, bacon or something crunchy in my sandwich. I love it! I've been addicted to bacon lately!
BM: You know what other food I'm addicted to? Peppercinis.
KW: Ugh, I don't like peppercinis anymore. I used to love them but not anymore.
BM: No, I love them! I could open up a jar and spoon them out. I love 'em!
KW: Ew, really?
BM: But they're good with some salami, or some crackers or some cream cheese.
KW: I'll eat them in my Olive Garden salad, but other than the Olive Garden salad, I don't like them really.
BM: What about dinner?
KW: Dinner? See, I'm not a big dinner person.
BM: See, I'm opposite.
KW: See, I am completely opposite. In the morning, I'll have an Egg McMuffin.
BM: Oooh, I do Egg McMuffin! I do them for lunch.
KW: Egg McMuffin, I have every day of my life. I have to have an Egg McMuffin.
BM: What do you put on it?
KW: I don't go to McDonald's to get it. I make my own -- so instead of regular bacon, I put turkey bacon. I use turkey bacon and I put egg whites to make it healthy. I put American cheese and they have this really good English muffin. Put it together and you put some "Slap Yo' Mama" on it.
BM: What is that?
KW: It's a seasoning from down South. It's a down-South seasoning.
BM: I don't know about "Slap Your Mama," but I do the McMuffin's too and I do egg whites, American cheese and I do regular bacon, but not too crispy. I don't like it to be all petrified and hard as a rock. But I don't want it not cooked either, so somewhere in between.
KW: I have to have one of those a day.
BM: What is your favorite snack?
KW: The Hot Cheetos, yeah. Flamin' Hot Cheetos, they've always been my favorite. If you know my friends down in San Diego, they always....
BM: Wait, what happened to the Cool Ranch Doritos? You were always begging for those everywhere we went?
KW: I love Cool Ranch Doritos and I used to love, love, love the Tabasco Cheez-It's.
BM: Oh yeah! But you burned yourself out. You'd eat, like, 10 boxes in one week.
KW: I burned myself out. I ate 10 boxes in one week and I'm done with those now. I am back to Hot Cheetos. I have always been a Hot Cheetos girl. What about you?
BM: Sometimes in the morning, if I do get a little bit hungry before I'm ready to have lunch, I'm addicted to those granola bars. The natural ones!
KW: Those are good.
BM: Oh my gosh! I take them on the Travel Channel with me. I take those with me when we're doing the Travel Channel show and I have a whole bag. My assistant carries those and beef jerky.
KW: I love beef jerky! Me and you have the same taste.
BM: Do you count calories?
KW: I don't even know what a calorie is. I don't give a f--k what calories are. I don't go by calories. I go just by portions, and we're both very active so we really don't need to worry about that. And me and you, we're the same. We want to live our lives. We have one life to live. Why not live it and eat what you want? But be smart about what you it. It's all common sense. I don't think you need to be on any special diet.
BM: It has to be something you can maintain for the rest of your life.
KW: Exactly.
BM: Otherwise, it sets you up to fail.
KW: It does, they do. They really do. I really don't believe in diets. You stress yourself out. You'll have extra stress on you. "Oh my god, pizza! But I can't eat it!"
BM: You can eat anything you want but in moderation. Diet is a bad word. You can't keep that up the rest of your life. And you're always going to set yourself up for failure.
KW: Yeah, the word "diet" is stupid and it sucks and I don't believe in it.
BM: And I definitely don't count calories either. Sometimes, I'll look just in case something that I thought might be good for you. for instance, those granola bars. Sometimes I'll look to see how many calories they have, and some might surprise me and it's, like, 3000 calories in that or something. I'd be like, "Whoa! I won't eat those as much." If it only has 100 calories, then I know I'm okay eating a few of these. OK, what about alcohol? Do you worry about the calories in that and how it affects your weight?
KW: See, I've given up liquor.
BM: What!
KW: 100% liquor. I don't drink liquor anymore. I'm a wine and beer person. Straight up wine and beer. I don't drink liquor anymore. It's disgusting to me now. I've lost the taste for it. So yeah now I have to worry about calories.
BM: I'm so sorry about that!
KW: Wine and beer are two fattening things.
BM: Well, light beer. Make sure you drink light beer. Well, I don't worry about the calories in alcohol. I like to have a glass of wine at night before I go to bed. A glass a red wine. With the Travel Channel show, I'm constantly going out and trying local favorites, whether it's the Sangria or the different wines in the area and stuff. Even at the mansion, I drink quite a bit. So I totally love it.
KW: Well, as you know, I stopped drinking soda five years ago. I cannot drink soda.
BM: Yeah, I have to have at least one soda a day.
KW: I will not pick up any soda and drink it. I hate soda. Soda is nasty.
BM: I know, you won't even mix it with anything, like with alcohol or anything. Even before you quit.
KW: Red Bull is the only thing that I consider soda that I drink. That's it. What energy drink do you like?
BM: I don't really drink energy drinks too much.
KW: I don't know why. I love just pounding Red Bull.
BM: I'd rather just go get a coffee, I'm addicted to Starbucks. Grande Nonfat Caramel Macchiato is my favorite. And then I'm addicted to the new McDonald's iced coffee, sugar-free vanilla. I love! I've been through the drive-thru three times just to get the iced coffee.
KW: Yeah, you and Holly both pound that coffee! I can only drink coffee once a day, and that's with my breakfast. I only drink my coffee black. Just black.
BM: I'd rather get a headache than drink it black. I hate all that sugar. I'm not a sugar person. That's why I'm like, sugar-free vanilla. Nonfat, that kind of thing. How often do you eat junk food?
KW: I eat junk food every day.
BM: I do too!
KW: If I have the chance, I love going to CVS or Walgreens because I like to go in there and go to the chips section.
BM: You're a chip-aholic!
KW: I love chips! I always grabs all these different chips and I open them all up in my car on the way home and I'm like, "Ah!"
BM: Well I will cruise through the drive-thru at McDonald's, and I get the cheeseburgers, but I get them with no meat and no onions.
KW: No meat! Burgers with no meat?
BM: Yeah, but it's like the cheese and the mustard and the ketchup and the pickles on the bread and it's so good!
KW: That's so weird!
BM: Or Taco Bell! Sometimes I sit in the drive-thru and I can't decide what I want to order because I'm like in love with the Enchirito, I love the Mexican pizza, but I love the tacos too. Or I love the quesadilla. I can't decide. And especially if I want the Enchirito or the Mexican pizza, those are two big things so it's hard.
KW: I like the Chalupa from Taco Bell.
BM: Yeah, the Chalupa is good. See I can't even go there with it because I love it but it's not one of my very favorites.
KW: See, I got burnt out on that too. As a kid, everyday after high school, I would go to Taco Bell and eat it every day so I got burnt out on Taco Bell.
BM: You know what I love too? Taco Bell mild sauce, and I always ask for lots of it, and I load it up in my bag.
KW: So what's your favorite type of food?
BM: Oh no, it's too hard to pick. It depends on my mood. I love Italian, I love Mexican, I love Chinese, I love Japanese. I love American. I'm sure I'm forgetting some. I love all of them. When did you start to worry about your diet? Like, "Oh I need to start eating healthier?"
KW: You know when!
BM: I do know when. Do you want me to tell it? I won't say it that bad, I'll just give the rundown. We're on our way to a wedding [about four years ago] with Hef in the limo. Holly was in the wedding. At first, you were like, "Oh I need to start working out. I'm getting kind of fat." And Hef said, "Yeah, there's a gym downstairs."
KW: Yeah, Hef, out of all people, said that to me.
BM: Yeah, "There's a gym downstairs, and you have to be careful with out kitchen."
KW: And I'm like, [imitates wailing]. I was crying so bad!
BM: I would've too. That was so mean.
KW: I was, like, crying.
BM: And then you got super skinny and super toned. And you became like, fitness girl!
KW: Well, before I became to the mansion, I was a soccer player. But then when I came to the mansion, and you know how this is, we have every food, any food that we can ask for.
BM: Twenty-four hour kitchen, anything we want. Any time of the day.
KW: I was binging. I was just eating nonstop. And you! Look at your body!
BM: I started doing trapeze. And now with the Travel Channel, I'm active with everything. I'm cliff-diving, bobsledding and climbing up Dunns River Falls [in Jamaica] and all kinds of crazy stuff.
KW: So you're not just at the gym.
BM: Yeah, it's the best way to workout when you can just have fun with it.
BM: Kendra, do you have any tricks about watching your diet? Do you not eat after a certain time? Or do you do anything weird? Any rules or anything for yourself?
KW: No. I try to get in the gym at least once a week. Not really the gym, because I hate the gym. I try to stay outside. I try to just run around and keep busy. Be busy by being fun busy is also good.
BM: Well I try not to eat too late. I definitely think about it. If it's getting ten, eleven o'clock and I haven't had dinner yet, I start thinking, "Oh crap, I better hurry up and eat 'cause it's starting to get really late and I don't want to have dinner at midnight." But I'll do it. Or if I'm out drinking and we want to stop by Jack-in-the-Box, I'm down for that kind of stuff. I don't really follow it too much. But I definitely do modifications. I feel like you can eat whatever you want. Instead of three scoops of ice cream, just have one scoop of ice cream.
KW: Yeah, just the taste of it is all that matters. Your eyes are bigger than your stomach. My eyes are. Sometimes, I just eat, eat, eat, eat. I eat so fast. I remember [a friend] at the mansion one time said, "Just take a couple seconds and let it just go down."
BM: Yeah, let it digest. Speaking of the mansion, what's your favorite food at the mansion. What do you think about mansion food?
KW: My favorite food at the mansion would just have to be the Olive Garden salad. I mean, I swear. I eat that Olive Garden salad with eggs and cheese in it and a smoothie. I love smoothies! Just a natural smoothie with no added anything to it. I just like strawberries, bananas and orange juice. I don't add milk to it or anything. Just fruit and it's good because it boosts your immune system. And carrot juice is actually a big thing that I drink when I go to Jamba Juice.
BM: What's the most extreme thing you've done to lose weight? I know what it is! Well, maybe I don't. But I think I know one thing.
KW: The most extreme thing I did to try and lose weight would probably be...?
BM: Well, I don't know if what I was going to say is actually to lose weight or if it was just more energy -- but I think that it was that Red Line.
KW: Oh, Red Line! I was addicted to Red Line. Not the drink, not the pills, but the syrup. Every morning, I would take a shot of it and that would be like, "Oh! Oh!" I was on crack. That made me lose so much weight so fast! I had no appetite. I was just nuts!
BM: But not in a good way.
KW: No. I was stressed. I lost too much weight, too fast. Yeah, what about you?
BM: I feel like I haven't really done too many extreme things except for maybe going to Barry's Bootcamp. That's a pretty extreme workout.
KW: That's extreme because I can't do that s--t.
BM: Really? I was able to do it and I did it for a long time but the thing of it is, I feel like it didn't make changes to my body the way I wanted it to like trapeze does.
KW: Yeah, you said doing the Santa Monica stairs.
BM: It didn't help me either. I enjoy doing them. I take it back, I hate doing the stairs. But the stairs [in Santa Monica] beats going to the gym. Yeah, I didn't feel like it made big changes in my body. That's the thing I've noticed, you have to find what works for you personally. Because the stairs might work incredibly well for somebody, but even though it's major cardio for me, I don't see a difference in my body.
KW: I think with you and the trapeze, it works so well because you're doing all this upper body stuff. It's not just doing the legs, it's a full on body. It's not just the legs. I think that's what really works for you. You look the best I've ever seen you.
BM: What are your secret diet and workout tips when you need to lose a few pounds? For like a photo shoot or something?
KW: I do a 22-minute drill on the treadmill. It's fast, but it does the trick. I do it at a 15 percent incline. I do it all the way up. It just hits that spot. And just taking a big bar, or big weight, and doing a couple squats and just doing regular sit-ups and I'm done. Did you say just before a photo shoot? For me, I think drinking a lot of water the day before and if I have a little time to do it, maybe a lot of protein and not so many carbs. Like I'm trying. If this photo shoot means so much to me and I really have to try hard, that's what I'll do. What's your normal workout?
BM: When I'm home, it's trapeze, of course. Or I like going on hikes.
KW: And you have your own trapeze bars and stuff?
BM: Yeah, trapeze bars at the mansion. But while I'm on the road with the Travel Channel, it's harder though so I try to keep it active. We're doing all kinds of things from climbing things.
KW: Talk to me about trapeze: Were you scared at first? What changes do you see in your body ever since you've seen it?
BM: When I first started trapeze, you came with me. And I loved it! I was definitely scared though. Then, CBS had a new show called "Secret Talents of the Stars" and they asked me if I wanted to be a part of that doing trapeze because they saw it on Girls Next Door and I was like, "Yes I'd love to!" They had me 30 feet up in the air and I'm kind of scared of heights, and I had to flip off backwards and I was really nervous. But once I did it, I felt so liberated and felt like I could do anything. I noticed so many differences in my body. I was toning up and my stomach was getting flat and I was just getting smaller but in a healthy way. I love the feeling I get when I do it. Have you ever had a trainer?
KW: I have. And I love having a personal trainer, but I believe you only need a personal trainer for so long just to kick your butt a little bit and to show you the ways of working out. After that, it's a waste of money because you can do it on your own.
BM: You have to be motivated enough to push yourself.
KW: And not everybody has that.
BM: Find somebody you can work out with. Speaking of working out with somebody, do you ever work out with Hank? Does he give you the football routine?
KW: Yeah. Actually, he's the one who taught me the 22-minute drill. On his off-season, we're going to work out together and do the whole thing.
BM: Are you going to be able to keep up with him?
KW: Yeah, he's a really fast runner. We already have plans on working out together. I want to do his workouts. I think when I hit the beach and run dunes. Thank god I know how to throw a football so we can throw a football. I can throw a football out to him since he's wide receiver so we'll do those drill together. It'll be cool.
BM: That'll be fun. Oh my god, he's going to put you through the biggest workout of your life! Talk about working out with Hef.
KW: Hell no. His biggest workout is what he's doing tonight, walking around Disneyland.
BM: What body part are you most proud of?
KW: My body part that I'm most proud of is my legs.
BM: Me too! I think my legs.
KW: We both have a great set of legs.
BM: They're totally different. Yours are more athletic.
KW: And yours are long. What about your feet? You love your feet!
BM: No, I don't love my feet. Other people love my feet. I have the longest toes in the world. Kendra, tell me about your wedding. What's going on?
KW: I'm waiting for Hank to come down here when he's done with his football and help me plan the wedding.
BM: It's going to still be at the mansion, right?
KW: Yeah, we're going to do our thing and walk it. We're going to choose together, you know? We might do something in San Diego. We're still thinking about it. He's never really been to L.A. so he's going to be with me and we're going to walk the grounds. We're going to walk to places and choose together where we're going to get married. Do everything together. I'm bringing him to the mansion.
BM: And you choose your colors, right? They're still going to be pink and white?
KW: Oh my god! Ever since we got engaged, I've been switching colors. I keep saying pink and white, but then I look in magazines, and I'm like, "Oh my god, look at midnight blue and white!"
BM: Yeah there are some amazing colors.
KW: I know, they're so good! So are you still happy with Hef? Do you want kids someday? Those two are in the wrong.
BM: I'm still happy at the mansion, but I am moving on. I mean you and Holly are gone. There are all new girls and the vibe is definitely different. My career with the Travel Channel is definitely where I want to focus and so I feel like it's time to move on. I've definitely started packing. My relationship with Hef is still really good and we talk all the time. We're very open about it, but I feel like it's time for me to start dating and to move on. And I definitely want kids some day so I feel like now is a good time to make the transition. Focus on the Travel Channel.
KW: We should all have kids at the same time.
BM: We could have a baby shower together!
KW: We'll name our show The Kids Next Door.
BM: I like it.
KW: Yeah. Okay Bridget, when do you feel most beautiful?
BM: That's a tough one because I have different moods. Sometimes I feel most beautiful when I've got done with a really great workout and no makeup and just natural and fresh but I just did something really great. Another time, I feel most beautiful when I'm all dolled up and getting ready to do some big event. I think I feel most beautiful when I've done a trapeze routine or something like that. Self-confidence is so much of it. What about you?
KW: I feel most beautiful when Hank's eyes are on me.
BM: You're giving me chills!
KW: Done! Done!

Wednesday, December 10, 2008

Oprah admits to weighing 200 pounds


Love her or hate you have to admit it has to be very hard to struggle with food and weight issues when you are such a public figure. You have people cheering for your success and people gloating at every failure. Kathy Griffin even says in her stand up routine that every time Oprah gains weight back, it gives her material for her act. Maybe this is because so many of us are secretly relieved that there is something, anything imperfect about such a powerful self made woman. Heck, she may be the most powerful woman on television today but, she's f-a-t! I mean really wouldn't it be harder to accept if she didn't have any obvious flaws. I actually think I like her more because her weight issues make her seem more human. I can relate to struggling with food and weight issues and I am ever so grateful that I haven't had to appear before millions at some of my highest weights! It also reinforces the fact that DIETS DON"T WORK! If one of the richest women in the world who has person chefs, personal trainers, fitness and health gurus, and can even hire someone to slap the naughty food out of her hand if she wants to can't stick to a diet, how does it look for the rest of us average folks?

An embarrassed Oprah Winfrey says she's "fallen off the wagon" of healthy living and has ballooned to 200 pounds. In January's "O" magazine, Winfrey, 54, details her recent struggles with an out-of-balance thyroid and how the condition made her develop "a fear of working out." She says she's gained 40 pounds since 2006, when she weighed 160.

"I look at my thinner self and think, `How did I let this happen again?'" the talk-show queen says in the article provided early to The Associated Press by Harpo Productions.

"I'm embarrassed," she says. "I'm mad at myself."

Winfrey's weight and height put her body mass index at 31.8, which is obese, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. The CDC says people who are obese are at higher risk for chronic conditions such as high blood pressure, diabetes and high cholesterol.

Winfrey says she's abandoned trying to get thin. She just wants to be strong, healthy and fit. She hopes to get started with her upcoming "Best Life Week," starting Jan. 5 with an episode of "The Oprah Winfrey Show" during which she is expected to talk candidly about her weight.

Winfrey famously wheeled a wagon loaded with fat onto the set of her talk show in 1988 to represent a 67-pound weight loss while wearing a pair of size 10 Calvin Klein jeans. She had lost the weight with a liquid protein diet.

"When it comes to maintaining my health I didn't just fall off the wagon. I let the wagon fall on me," the chairwoman of Harpo Inc. writes. "I didn't follow my own fundamental rule of taking care of self first."

In 2005, Winfrey said she starved herself for four months to lose weight. Ever since, her weight has yo-yoed. She weighed as much as 237 pounds and by late 1990 acknowledged she had regained most of the 67 pounds, saying "I'll never diet again."

In 1994, she finished the Marine Corps Marathon and by 1996 hired personal trainer Bob Greene, saying her roller-coaster weight saga was over.

But now, Winfrey finds herself tipping the scales again, telling AP Television last week that she has yet to choose a gown for President-elect Barack Obama's inaugural ball next month.

"I had a dress on the vision board, but I'm not sure that's gonna fit," Winfrey said. "So I have to work on something else."


Oprah reveals she weighs 200 pounds
American talk show ‘queen’ Oprah Winfrey apparently believes in being straightforward when it comes to talking about her weight, for she has revealed in an article that she currently weighs 200 pounds.
She also writes that she has “fallen off the wagon” when it comes to healthy living.
The article, released by Winfrey’s Harpo Productions, appears in the January issue of ‘O’ magazine.
"I'm mad at myself," ‘the New York Daily News’ quoted her as having written in the article..
"I'm embarrassed. I can't believe that after all these years, all the things I know how to do, I'm still talking about my weight. I look at my thinner self and think, ''How did I let this happen again?” she wrote.
The write-up details Winfrey’s recent struggles with an out-of-balance thyroid, and how the condition made her develop "a fear of working out".
It reveals that the 54-year-old talk show host has gained 40 pounds since she weighted 160 pounds in 2006.
"Yes, you're adding correctly; that means the dreaded 2-0-0. I was so frustrated I started eating whatever I wanted - and that's never good," Winfrey writes.
The piece also suggests that Winfrey no longer wants to be thin, and that she instead wishes to be strong healthy and fit.
Winfrey seemed to sound almost apologetic in her article, as she wrote: "I definitely wasn't setting an example. I was talking the talk, but I wasn't walking the walk. And that was very disappointing to me."

Wednesday, October 08, 2008

Guess Madonna isn't a fan of Sarah Palin


The following story appeared on the US Magazine website;
Madonna Heckles Palin at NYC Concert

The singer, 50, made repeated swipes at the Republican vice presidential candidate while performing her Sticky & Sweet Tour Tuesday at NYC's Madison Square Garden.
During her tune "I Love New York," Madonna told the audience - which included an enthusiastic Diddy, Rosie O'Donnell and designer Michael Kors - "you know who can get off of my street? Sarah Palin! I'm gonna kick her ass if she don't get off of my street!"
She then mocked the Alaska governor's accent, sarcastically telling the crowd, "I love her."
Later, while screeching her guitar, she made yet another crack: "This is the sound of Sarah Palin's husband's snowmobile when it won't start up in the wintertime." She then performed her hit "Hung Up."
Madonna also heckled Palin at her show Saturday at the Meadowlands in New Jersey, the New York Post reports.
She shouted: "Sarah Palin can't come to my party! Sarah Palin can't come to my show. It's nothing personal."

Saturday, September 06, 2008

Oh! how I love the politically incorrect nerds!



Mr. Boston is just the kind of guy I would have been head over heels about in high school and college and he would have been lusting after some Vogue reading, sorority girl club member, standing weekly mani pedi with bleach appointment, size 2, with bulimia. I would have been his "good friend". He is crass, disgusting at times, and says horrible things about larger women. But I am still attracted to his blog and if I am honest, him. Husband knows this and thinks it is funny as he is a politically incorrect nerd himself, he just never got a chance to become a reality television star. I must warn you if you go to check out his blog, you will be offended, especially if you allow yourself to take some of his remarks personally. I have to wonder if some of what he writes isn't written a little tongue in cheek with the whole idea behind it to shock and offend. Then of course there is the possibility that he is just that self absorbed these days and that prejudiced against larger women. I hope not but unfortunately it is a possibility. Read at your own risk.
see his home page on vh1 here

Friday, August 29, 2008

David Duchony is a sex addict?

David Duchovny: Sex addict or method actor?
On Thursday, "Access Hollywood" broke the news that David Duchovny was entering rehab for sex addiction.

"I have voluntarily entered a facility for the treatment of sex addiction," the actor said in a statement. "I ask for respect and privacy for my wife and children as we deal with this situation as a family."

Rumors about this potential problem have come up for Duchovny before. But he denied them to Playgirl magazine In 1997:

"I'm not a sex addict. I have never been to those meetings. It's hurtful to my family and if I was involved with a woman in a monogamous relationship, it would be hurtful to her. There was another story claiming I was a neat freak. If I had to choose one of the two, I think I'd rather be a sex addict. It's not funny and I'll be glad when it goes away."

Is this really an issue for him? Or more of a research project?

Yes, sex addiction is a real issue. But maybe, just maybe, could Duchovny simply be doing homework? Will he emerge victorious, a fooled-ya grin on his face, after he's finished his "character research"? Duchovny, after all, stars in the Showtime series "Californication," as Hank Moody, a writer and spun-out-of-control sex addict.

And Duchovny was left in the dust this year in the Emmys race, while a Showtime colleague, "Dexter" star Michael C. Hall, was nominated for lead actor.

— Denise Martin
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From Playgirl, April 1997

The Fox-Files
by Dagmar Dunlevy



Tall, chestnut-haired X-Files star David Duchovny is a man who lives up to his TV character's moniker in more ways that one. Surely, he has the sultry good looks any woman would desire in a handsome man, but David also has the added blessing of being imbued with the sly sexiness which sneaks up on you so quietly that before you know what's happened, your heart's already caught-even before you find out about his B.A. from Princeton and M.A. from Yale, the university where he also taught as an English Literature professor! In fact, this scholarly stud is only a dissertation away from a Ph.D. But academia will have to wait, thanks to the near hysteria of millions of salivating viewers who tune into The X-Files weekly to watch FBI agent Fox Mulder do what he does best-that is making women the world over with desire.

I've been lucky enough to have had the pleasure of meeting David several times before our Playgirl interview, and I can tell you with confidence that this six-foot gentleman exudes a natural charm and is the possessor of a quick wit and a dry sense of humor, making him welcome in any crowd. He can equally make you fell just as comfortable around him., letting you know that he finds what you have to say important.

Nevertheless, however engaging he may be at the occasional Hollywood function, the delectable Duchovny is still a man who appreciates a separation between his public appearances and his private life. Whenever I'd spot him a local L.A. eatery, he'd do his best to blend in with the crowd, sporting casual weekend wear topped off with a baseball cap and sunglasses. With an almost regal detachment, the message was clear: Do Not Disturb.

Over the course of the two-day trip to Vancouver, Canada for this interview, I had a better opportunity to get to know "The Fox," as well as his cast and crew. And looking up close, I found the man behind "The Duchovny Grin" to be truly disarming. With a smile that's little off with a pouty bottom, the result is at once serious and sensuous. His eyes, large and expressive, are sometimes a soft warm brown and, when catching the sunlight, seem illuminated with bright green hues.

Arriving at Sound Stage 24 on the backlot of the Steven J. Cannell Studios, David Duchovny strolls across the lawn to meet and greet the press. Having just gotten off a plane himself, he seems slightly fatigued. Dressed in a blue jeans, gray crew-neck T-shirt and a leather bomber jacket, his over-all look is preppy casual, but his unshaven face casts a soft shadow, enhancing his strong jawline. His thick hair is a little tousled, with a few renegade strands spilling onto his forehead. This not so clean-cut seems to suit him prefectly.


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Now that he's single and available (Duchovny recently broke off a long-term relationship with L.A.-based actress Perrey Reeves), casual dates or the process of just getting to know someone can get very complicated. Every woman he's seen with now is touted to be the future Mrs. Duchovny. "That's just what happens and I think it's only funny if you're single," he says matter-of-factly. "If you're single, you're not hurting anybody, so you can walk down the street with a woman and you read in the paper that you're dating then you're going to marry her. When you're seriously involved and planning to marry her, then it becomes hurtful and difficult. Being single isn't a problem, except with things like the sex-addict label. I don't think people believe that stuff, anyway. Once you spend any time with a person, they get to know who you are. Sometimes, you may even become a little isolated and stay inside because every time you go out, you're making a statement of some kind."

In response to his alleged coupling with Winona Ryder, David is quick to put the facts straight, saying, "I was just good friends with Winona. I just don't like to talk about my personal life. It's an area I don't go into."

A serious expression cast across his handsome face, David continues, "I feel like we all work so hard and, I don't want to pat myself on the back, but we give a lot to make the show. What people get from the show is the show. They don't get me. I have to pull back to take care of myself. Sometimes, people get angry because they fell that, 'We watch your show and now give us you.' It's up to me to draw the line. What I give you is the show, the character. I don't give you an experience of me. I feel like I give a lot. I get upset and it's too bad when people thing that I don't give enough because I don't go to conventions or I don't want to talk about certain things, do certain things. There's always going to be that misunderstanding.

Privacy, David makes clear, is a key issue in his life. Since 'The X-Files' has made his life suddenly X-posed, David tires to exhibit grace under pressure, though he did reveal to us his pet peeve about proving voyeurs. "Leave me alone when I'm eating. That's just polite, I think. I never understood people that come up to you while you're eating."

The same holds true when walking down the street. "I like to walk, and Vancouver's a walking city. Not in L.A. In L.A., I won't tell you where you're likely to meet me in a restaurant. Vancouver is a place where I don't get mobbed. They're used to us being here. It's not as simple in other cities." David's voice rises with annoyance. You don't know what to call those people who don't have a job but they're walking around with video cameras and photo cameras and they sell the shoots while trying to antagonize you into a confrontation. L.A.'s just crawling with that and it's really uncomfortable. You never get that here. New York and L.A. are very difficult for me. Too bad for New York, because it's where I grew up. It's very strange for me to go there and walk down the street and have people accost me, insisting on taking my picture. It's strange because I was in New York for 25 years and nobody even looked at me."

A confessed bookworm, this intellectual-turned-thespian enjoys the challenge of tackling five books at once. "I'm just finishing up two books called "Out of Carolina" and "The Selfish Gene," which is this book by Richard Dawkins dating back 25 years. It's about Darwinian biology. Of course, my sex addict's 'How To' handbook is also lying around, because I'm not a very good one," he says with a grin.

But, don't get the impression David's got all the time in the world to practice his high-brow activities. Last summer, he shot the feature film "Playing God" in Los Angles during his television show's hiatus. In the movie, which co-stars Angelina Jolie and Timothy Hutton, David portrays Dr. Eugene Sands, a physician who loses his license after performing an operation while high on amphetamines. Drifting aimlessly, Sands is lured deep into the dark side of life where he works as a 'gun-shot' doctor providing treatment to criminals who won't go to a hospital out of fear of getting caught. Danger arrives for Sands, however, when he becomes entangled with his boss' girlfriend.

David confides to us that he didn't make this film looking for a box office smash. "It's not that kind of movie," he says. "My plan is to be in a position where I can do the best scripts that are available. It has nothing to do with trying to make a hit or trying to make myself a movie star. That's not the point for me. Sometimes I think that I should rest. I don't know why I don't, but I like to work. In some ways, just playing a character that wasn't Mulder after three years felt like a rest, even if it wasn't a physical one. When I came back this year I was mentally rested."

Refreshed and read for the fourth season, David, cast and crew go to work. "We get along," David says with a natural ease. "But we have our moments, of course. I think sometimes we all just show up and go, 'Goddammit, I'd rather be anywhere else but here and I'm going to make you suffer for it.' But then other times, I'll look at Gillian (co-star Gillian Anderson, who plays FBI agents, Dr. Dana Scully) and I'll think she's the only one that really knows what I'm going through, and vice versa. So there's a real bond there. We're all just trying to make it the best show we can make it. If we keep that common goal in mind, we can forgive a lot."

"On the outdoor pation of one of Vancouver's trendy eateries, "Skinner" (co-star) Mitch Pileggi) is trading a few mock punches with David and demonstrating the choreography behind them. Apparently, David could use a few pointers. With Mitch and I as his audience, David reenacts the time he used a telephone receiver to clobber a colleague in a scene. Though the actor apparently didn't mind getting hammered by Fox Mulder, David apologized profusely for the accidental physical assault. However, being a "method actor," the man wouldn't let the realism of the moment be halted. "Keep rolling!" he called as he staggered around the set.

Filming 12-plus per day, sometimes six days a week, 10 months out of the year can be grueling, especially on a show that's mostly heavy drama. So, ti's no surprise that the cast makes a point of finding ways to release the daily tension. What exactly are the methods of comic relief? Agents Mulder and Skinner break out in a broad grin. "We have some pretty funny gag reels," says David mischievously. After recounting some of the stunts pulled from the outtakes, we get to view a gag sampling the next day. Here's Fox Mulder in a serious scene. It's dark. He's in a car with a male passenger. The dialogue is heavy. Mulder looks to his passenger, tells him he's a good-looking guy, grabs him by the neck and shoves his neck into his lap. "Cut!" Another scene has Skinner and Mulder in the FBI office. "Action!" Tired of having to do another physical take, Mulder shoves Skinner towards the desk, lassos him with his belt and gets ready to take him from behind. "Cut!" This usually results in the cast and crew roaring with laughter. Final touches are put on these reels where no one is spared, not Gillian, creator Chris Carter or director Rob Bowman. The reels are then pulled out for the year-end wrap parties.

The party isn't over for "The X-Files" anytime soon, however. Under a five year contract, David hopes to see the show continue on as periodic specials. Important to all is that the quality and integrity of the series remains. In the meantime, he's adamant about keeping Fox Mulder interesting and believable, and tells us, "Depending on the story, it's about bringing out shades, certain things to the forefront. If you ever stop to think what the show is often about, you'd say, I'd never watch a show like that" It can get kind of silly if you just laid it out on a page. It's the actor's job to make it real and involving." Describing how he'd do just that, David says, "Every show has an arc and I try to maintain that arc. Personally, I just try to come up with some emotional parallels to my own life that actually work. That's hard to do and you have to make it real or else people are going to laugh at it."


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"I'm not a sex addict. I have never been to those meetings. It's a very funny term, and we can laugh it off, but it's not funny when you see it in the press."
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Another parallel from this life is that of teacher. It's the only thing he misses from academia. "As an actor," he explains, "I find that what I do is very similar because you're trying to express something - trying to convey something. As a teacher, I was probably too much of a performer, and as an actor, I'm probably too much of a teacher. I'm trying to find a way down the middle."

At 36, David has no regrets about the path he's chosen. "I started acting when I was 26, which I guess is kind of old to start. I never though that it was going to be a career, really. I just thought I was doing something that was helping me as a person, but once I started auditioning and I started trying to get work as actor, I just kind of had a feeling that things would work out for me in some way."

Yet fame has it's price. "You hear famous people say, 'Oh, woe is me,'" he says reflecting. "I'm famous, and yet until you're famous, you can't imagine it. I never really thought of it in any kind of realistic way. I just thought about doing my job and then seeing what happens. Becoming famous is a major life experience so you just learn how to deal with it. You can't be taught how to deal with it - you make your mistakes and you try to learn from them. Unfortunately, you're making mistakes in front of a lot of people."

There's only time for a few more questions - including the one most Playgirl readers have been dying to have answered. What about all these rumors hitting the papers alleging that David Duchovny is a sex addict? With a self-mocking grin he replies, "I just want to make love to them all... Again, I don't know where that would have come from, except that I'm single and I had a long-term girlfriend up until last November. I have been seen with more than one woman in the last few months, so I'm an easy target for those kind of things. As far as sex addiction, that's a serious business with all these Twelve Step programs. Not only is there Alcoholics Anonymous, but other programs have expanded from substance abuse to any kind of compulsive behavior.

"It's actually a legitimate concern for a lot of people who feel that they have compulsive sexual behavior. I'm not a sex addict. I have never been to those meetings. It's a very funny term, and we can laugh it off, but it's not funny when you see it in the press. And it hurts people. It's hurtful to my family and if I was involved with a woman in a monogamous relationship, it would be hurtful to her. There was another story claiming I was a neat freak. If I had to choose one of the two, I think I'd rather be a sex addict. It's not funny and I'll be glad when it goes away."

Although the scrumptious actor is obviously not a sex addict, he definitely is chockful of simmering appeal. What kind of woman does a certified sex symbol look for?

"Someone who is self-sufficient, who has a career of her own. I am not one of those people who's attracted to specifics. I don't need to take care of anybody. I don't want to take care of anybody. I don't want to take care of anybody, unless I have children and then I'll take care of them. A sense of humor is very important, as is compassion. And, "he adds jokingly, "she must have a driver's license."



Dunlevy, Dagmar. April 1997. "The Fox-Files." Playgirl.

Wednesday, June 18, 2008

Queen Latifah reaches her weight loss goal


I tried Jenny Craig (along with many other diets pre op) and it did work for me for awhile, as many other diets did, but after I stopped buying their food, the weight came back. I am glad that Queen Latifah is talking about the need to increase exercise as well as watch her calories. I have always had a problem with that. I could get one under control but not the other and vice versa. This is the first time in a long time that I feel I have both running smoothly. I still struggle some days, but doesn't everyone? I am also very glad that she says this wasn't about getting skinny. One of the things that I didn't like about the whole Kirstie Alley/ Jenny Craig add campaign was that it tried to imply that her life would be so much better and more glamorous once she (implying the same would be true for you also) lost weight. It never really talked about being healthy, it talked about being skinny. I am so glad Queen Latifah isn't doing that.
Thanks to her new gig as a Jenny Craig spokesperson, Queen Latifah has been busy shedding the pounds. The singer-actress said she now hits the gym five to seven times a week, and continues to speak out about healthy living. In 2008, Queen Latifah signed on as a spokesperson for Jenny Craig. The curvy singer-actress outlined her weight-loss goals to Essence magazine: "I see myself getting healthier, having more energy and feeling better."
The Mad Money star, 38, who is known for embracing her curves, said her weight-loss goal wasn't "about getting skinny."
"My jeans are looser, I feel more energetic," she said of shedding the weight. "People dig it. They come up to me and say 'I'm glad you're talking about the health side of it.' People get that message, which is important too."

"My intention was to lose five to 10 percent of my body weight because it makes a difference with health related issues, and I achieved that goal in a couple of months," she told PEOPLE recently. "I'm excited about this weight loss."

But Latifah, despite dropping a dress size or two, wants to make one thing clear to her fans: she's still the same Queen.

"They see that I'm doing this for the health reasons but also say, 'She's still representing for the big girls. She hasn't abandoned us!' " Latifah said. "This is me doing something for me."see her on the jenny craig website here!

more on carnie wilson's new reality show

I posted this on the message board after my post about Carnie turned into a huge flame war about post op regain. I too am not sure how I feel about her being the chef on this new show. I am very curious to see if her recipes will be weight loss surgery friendly. I am considering buying her cookbook although I have been told that the recipes AREN'T weight loss surgery friendly. I am hopeful that the recipes on the show will be however. This could be a great opportunity for her to showcase some healthy recipes that still taste great to people that are not post op weight loss surgery!
She was being made fun of on Chelsey Lately for being the new queen of reality television, that is how I first heard of the new show. I agree she has to work and if reality television is paying the bills, then who are we to judge. Obviously people are watching it, I know I will, or she wouldn't keep getting offers to do more.

Post Date: 6/18/08 12:32 pm
gee, I had no idea when I posted this that I would open such a can of worms. I must thank Carnie Wilson for my current situation, post op weight loss surgery, down over 100 pounds, married to a man who also post op weight loss surgery is CURED of type 2 diabetes (his fasting pro op blood sugars were over 300 on Metformin, his triglyceride's were 1500, the highest I had ever seen, this is also while he was on medication) now his cholest. is healthy and he is off all meds. I live in Alaska after taking a drastic leap of faith and leaving everyone and everything we knew to drive here in a VW bug with our infant daughter and 3 cats. (I would have never had the courage to do that pre op) I am in the process of making a drastic career change and going back to school. I always swore I wouldn't be one of those women that let my weight issues keep me from living a normal life and following my dreams but now I realize it was. I read both of Carnies books pre op and post op. I also reviewed one for my blog. She struggled with addiction and weight issues her whole life, she was very honest about this in both of her books. She even titled her second book (written after her weight loss surgery) "Still Hungry". She is very clear in that book that weight loss surgery isn't a magic cure, that you still have to work with your food issues everyday. She talks about this and the high rate of transfer addictions post weight loss surgery. She was on Oprah talking about it also. I really thank those two books for informing me about the honest realities of weight loss surgery. Most of the books I have read about it are either so technical and written with impossible medical language (I am a nurse and I found some very hard to read), or are so super positive that they don't even hint at a possibility of failure. I have tried to include the more realistic and down to earth books about weight loss surgery on my blog, including hers. Just think of it this way, she could have easily went into hiding after she started to regain. Lots of celebs do. She could have blamed the surgery and said it failed her, she didn't. she said it was her own issues and not paying attention to her eating that made her regain. She is accepting responsibility and being honest. You have to respect that a little don't you? I hope that you will read at least her second book, Still Hungry. It will help you once you are over a year out. This surgery doesn't fix your mind. What ever issues, insecurities, coping mechanisms, you had before surgery are still going to be with you after surgery. We had a woman that came to speak to our pre op surgery group that was considered a "failure". She said she had been over weight all her life. She said that when she was over 400 pounds (she was 5'2" I think) and the guy didn't like her, she couldn't make friends, she didn't get the job, or she didn't fit in, she always blamed her weight. Then she had the surgery and lost over 200 pounds and the guy still didn't like her, she still couldn't make friends, still didn't fit in, and still didn't get the job. She said she couldn't blame her weight anymore and realized it must be "her" that was the problem and the surgery had taken away the one thing that gave her pleasure, eating. She dumped on dairy post op so she sat on the toilet and ate ice cream. Is that an extreme example? yes but it also proves a point. Her coping mechanism had always been eating and she never did the work to change it so when she started to have stress post op, she went right back to it. It also shows that this surgery isn't the magic cure for all that ails you in your life. I hope you understand that many of us have this surgery after a lifetime of weight issues and all of the emotional baggage that goes with it, Carnie and myself included. If this isn't you also, then you are very lucky and hopefully you won't deal with having to find a new coping mechanism, transfer addiction, or regain as statistically most post op patients do.

Carnie Wilson on another reality televison series?!?





Let's see, she has been on Celebrity Fit Club, Gone County, VH1's I married,CelebraCadabra, had her own low impact workout video titled, "Great Changes", published 3 books including a cookbook, made several music albums, alone and with the group Wilson Phillip's, and now she is going to star in another reality show on CMT called, Outsider's Inn. I have a video of an interview that she and McCormick gave to Ross on his "Ross Blog" about it, it is at the end of his rant about the airlines. Brown is sleeping so he doesn't participate, much like most of his time on Gone Country.
McCormick, Brown and Wilson Star in New CMT Reality Series
June 9, 2008
Maureen McCormick, who played Marsha Brady on The Brady Bunch, will star in a new CMT reality series titled Outsider's Inn, about managing a Southern bed-and-breakfast. McCormick returns to the network after appearing in the first season of Gone Country. Two other Gone Country cast members will also star in the new series. Assisting McCormick at the inn are Bobby Brown, who becomes the entertainment director, and Carnie Wilson, who works as the master chef. The first episode will air on Aug. 15. Production is currently underway in Newport, Tenn.



The series decription of VH1's, "I married"
It takes lots of work to make a celebrity marriage work. VH1's I Married offers an intimate look at the courage and power it takes to be the strong spouse behind a successful star.





Carnie on celebrity fit club here!

Tuesday, June 17, 2008

is it a little disturbing and cult like or is it just me?



How awful am I for cringing inside as I watch this family? How awful am I for secretly agreeing with my husband that they appear cult like and to laugh when my husband says, "great another soldier for Christ" when we hear they are expecting their 18th child. They are even having a contest to pick a name for the 18th baby. Are they out of ideas for names that begin with "J" after 18 kids? Darn they already used Jinger.
Am I wrong to think of the horrible impact those 90,000+ diapers are having on our environment?
We were watching Chelsea Lately last night and she mentioned them during the round table portion of the program. She brought up an interesting fact, statistically one or more of these children will be gay. Will they still be accepted by the Duggars? Would they accept it if one of their children had a child out of wedlock? married a person of another race? left their religion? got into trouble with the law? Statistically some of this is likely to happen.
They have already beaten the odds having 17 seemingly healthy children with no obvious health issues or deficits. Maybe they do have someone looking out for them upstairs. I am an only child (so is my husband) so maybe this explains why we think this is so strange. I can't imagine having 18 children. I can't imagine being one of 18 children. I can't imagine the responsibility and the lack of solitude either situation would entail. I had a friend that grew up in Japan and she told me that you were never really alone. That must be what living in the Duggar family must be like only without the electronic entertainment. (They have no televisions, heck they have no time for it).
They home school. (it's a religiously based program) I had a cousin that was home schooled from the 2nd grade and was raised in a similar religious environment and when she couldn't pass the GED, as all home schooled children must do if they want a recognized degree and to be able to continue on to any type of college (they say they are planning on some of their children doing so, that is good at least), she ended up marrying the first guy that she dated and staying home raising her 2 biological, 1 adopted, and various foster children with no career or friends. She lives in the same small town that I couldn't wait to escape from after spending my high school years there. Only it is worse now as 90% of the business have closed since the new highway bypasses the town completely. Forgive me for saying the following but, her life sounds like hell to me. I am sure it is just fine for her and for many of you out there, it probably doesn't sound too bad but my spirit would be dying daily in that kind of near existence. Same with The duggars. I would have a nervous breakdown if I was the mother. I would have snuck out and got birth control, my tubes tied or at least put a lock on the bedroom door and invested in a nice sleeper sofa for my husband.
I am not saying that all home schooling is bad or that all home schooled children have social development delays but imagine going out into the world after living in an environment like that? What is going to happen when some of these kids go away to college? Assuming they do get to "go away" to a college that isn't religiously based and isn't near their parents. What would you have to talk about at the office water cooler, assuming you had the skills (computer, social, busisness) to get an office job in the first place, assuming your religious beliefs permitted you to get an office job. I get the distinct impression that their religious beliefs encourage the females to stay home pregnant don't you? Seeing the mothers and the daughters attire also makes me shudder. I saw so many of the girls from the types of religions that encourage (notice I didn't imply that they require them to do this, wink wink, nudge nudge) the girls to dress this way, made fun of as a teen, sneak out and drink and have sex to prove they were "normal".
My mother had a sleep over for me when I was 16 and when she called to invite one of my friends who was a member of one of these religions, the mother replied that she didn't know if her daughter could attend as I was a little, "wild". So my mother took great pleasure in calling that same mother a few weeks later when her daughter left her bike at our house and left in a car with a grown man while I was at drama practice.
How are these children learning the social skills necessary for normal day to day life in the outside world? I know my cousin never did. They never say whether these children are getting any computer experience/ training. Do they have friends that aren't in their religion? are culturally diverse? are a little wild?
The older children all have a littler child that they help take care of as well as jurisdictions/chores (Lucky 17 year old Jill gets to make everyone lunch and 18 year old Jana gets to make everyone dinner )and they have to schedule one on one time with mom. I think that is so sad. I can't imagine being so very busy that I have to make an appointment with my child. They also teach Jesus first, others second and yourself last?!? There is a reason they tell you to put oxygen on yourself first before placing it on a child or other needy individual. If you are too stressed, neglected, or overrun from putting yourself last all of the time, how are you possibly going to be any good to anyone else? Sounds like these children are going to be prime pickings for some unscrupulous people and romantic partners. I can easily see how that kind of thinking (let me clarify this isn't a criticism of the Jesus first part of the teaching) can end one of these children in an abusive relationship.
I am honestly very surprised that the older children aren't married yet and starting their own tribe (especially the older girls). I bet this is what the older Duggar son is going to announce during their next television special, what do you want to make a bet? Do they even get to watch their own specials?
I also have to wonder how they make enough money to support these children. I know every thing changed for them when they attended the "financial freedom" seminar (religiously based by the way) but lets get real. I found on their website an old interview with parents magazine (back when they had a small family of only 14 children) where they say they spend $1500.00 a month on food. What type of food can you get for 16 people for $1500.00? Well, if you read their recipes and watch their specials, it isn't the healthiest or the freshest and you had better love cream of Mushroom soup! They state in the same interview that the fresh fruit they do buy is usually gone in 2 or 3 days! I am sure they are making a tidy sum from these specials and they both have real estate licences according to their website, but again, lets get real. Having A child is expensive. I am sure their 18 children don't have as many toys and games as my single child does, it's probably considered sinful. They really don't have much scheduled "free" time according to their website so having very many toys and games would be wasteful. Now I am not anti religion but I am anti misogynistic anything and this really borders on misogynist to me. The girls parading along with their uncut hair, long dresses does remind me of having to wear the burqas in the middle east. You may think that is quite a stretch but is it really? Their dress ostracizes them just the same.

Praise the lord and visit their website here!
one of their recipes, (weight loss surgery friendly it is not!)
TATER TOT CASSEROLE
2 lb ground turkey cooked, seasoned, drained
3 2lb bags tater tots
2 cans cream of mushroom
2 cans evaporated milk
2 cans cream of chicken
Brown meat & place in large cass. dish.
Cover with tater tots. Mix soup & milk together.
Pour over top. Bake at 350 for 1 Hour.
(One of Daddy’s Favorites!) Makes 2- 9”X13” pans


God Does Not Want 16 Kids
Arkansas mom gives birth to a whole freakin' baseball team. How deeply should you cringe?
By Mark Morford, SF Gate Columnist

Wednesday, October 19, 2005

Who are you to judge? Who are you to say that the more than slightly creepy 39-year-old woman from Arkansas who just gave birth to her 16th child yes that's right 16 kids and try not to cringe in phantom vaginal pain when you say it, who are you to say Michelle Duggar is not more than a little unhinged and sad and lost?

And furthermore, who are you to suggest that her equally troubling husband -- whose name is, of course, Jim Bob and he's hankerin' to be a Republican senator and try not to wince in sociopolitical pain when you say that -- isn't more than a little numb to the real world, and that bringing 16 hungry mewling attention-deprived kids (and she wants more! Yay!) into this exhausted world zips right by "touching" and races right past "disturbing" and lurches its way, heaving and gasping and sweating from the karmic armpits, straight into "Oh my God, what the hell is wrong with you people?"

But that would be, you know, mean. Mean and callous to suggest that this might be the most disquieting photo you see all year, this bizarre Duggar family of 18 spotless white hyperreligious interchangeable people with alarmingly bad hair, the kids ranging in ages from 1 to 17, worse than those nuked Smurfs in that UNICEF commercial and worse than all the horrific rubble in Pakistan and worse than the cluster-bomb nightmare that is Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise having a child as they suck the skin from each other's Scientological faces and even worse than that huge 13-foot python which ate that six-foot alligator and then exploded.

It's wrong to be this judgmental. Wrong to suggest that it is exactly this kind of weird pathological protofamily breeding-happy gluttony that's making the world groan and cry and recoil, contributing to vicious overpopulation rates and unrepentant economic strain and a bitter moral warpage resulting from a massive viral outbreak of homophobic neo-Christians across our troubled and Bush-ravaged land. Or is it?

Is it wrong to notice how all the Duggar kids' names start with the letter J (Jeremiah and Josiah and Jedediah and Jesus, someone please stop them), and that if you study the above photo (or the even more disturbing family Web site) too closely you will become rashy and depressed and you will crave large quantities of alcohol and loud aggressive music to deflect the creeping feeling that this planet is devolving faster than you can suck the contents from a large bong? But I'm not judging.

I have a friend who used to co-babysit (yes, it required two sitters) for a family of 10 kids, and she reports that they were, almost without fail, manic and hyper and bewildered and attention deprived in the worst way, half of them addicted to prescription meds to calm their neglected nerves and the other half bound for years of therapy due to complete loss of having the slightest clue as to who they actually were, lost in the family crowd, just another blank, needy face at the table. Is this the guaranteed affliction for every child of very large families? Of course not. But I'm guessing it's more common than you imagine.

What's more, after the 10th kid popped out, the family doctor essentially prohibited the baby-addicted mother from having any more offspring, considering the pummeling endured by her various matronly systems, and it's actually painful to imagine the logistics, the toll on Michelle Duggar's body, the ravages it has endured to give birth to roughly one child per year for nearly two decades, and you cannot help but wonder about her body and its various biological and sexual ... no, no, it is not for this space to visualize frighteningly capacious vaginal dimensions. It is not for this space to imagine this couple's soggy sexual mutations. We do not have enough wine on hand for that.

Perhaps the point is this: Why does this sort of bizarre hyperbreeding only seem to afflict antiseptic megareligious families from the Midwest? In other words -- assuming Michelle and Jim Bob and their massive brood of cookie-cutter Christian kidbots will all be, as the charming photo suggests, never allowed near a decent pair of designer jeans or a tolerable haircut from a recent decade, and assuming that they will all be tragically encoded with the values of the homophobic asexual Christian right -- where are the forces that shall help neutralize their effect on the culture? Where is the counterbalance, to offset the damage?

Where is, in other words, the funky tattooed intellectual poetess who, along with her genius anarchist husband, is popping out 16 funky progressive intellectually curious fashion-forward pagan offspring to answer the Duggar's squad of über-white future Wal-Mart shoppers? Where is the liberal, spiritualized, pro-sex flip side? Verily I say unto thee, it ain't lookin' good.

Perhaps this the scariest aspect of our squishy birthin' tale: Maybe the scales are tipping to the neoconservative, homogenous right in our culture simply because they tend not to give much of a damn for the ramifications of wanton breeding and environmental destruction and pious sanctimony, whereas those on the left actually seem to give a whit for the health of the planet and the dire effects of overpopulation. Is that an oversimplification?

Why does this sort of thoughtfulness seem so far from the norm? Why is having a stadiumful of offspring still seen as some sort of happy joyous thing?

You already know why. It is the Biggest Reason of All. Children are, after all, God's little gifts. Kids are little blessings from the Lord, the Almighty's own screaming spitballs of joy. Hell, Jim Bob said so himself, when asked if the couple would soon be going for a 17th rug rat: "We both just love children and we consider each a blessing from the Lord. I have asked Michelle if she wants more and she said yes, if the Lord wants to give us some she will accept them." This is what he actually said. And God did not strike him dead on the spot.

Let us be clear: I don't care what sort of God you believe in, it's a safe bet that hysterical breeding does not top her list of desirables. God does not want more children per acre than there are ants or mice or garter snakes or repressed pedophilic priests. We already have three billion humans on the planet who subsist on less than two dollars a day. Every other child in the world (one billion of them) lives in abject poverty. We are burning through the planet's resources faster than a Republican can eat an endangered caribou stew. Note to Michelle Duggar: If God wanted you to have a massive pile of children, she'd have given your uterus a hydraulic pump and a revolving door. Stop it now.

Ah, but this is America, yes? People should be allowed to do whatever the hell they want with their families if they can afford it and if it's within the law and so long as they aren't gay or deviant or happily flouting Good Christian Values, right? Shouldn't they? Hell, gay couples still can't openly adopt a baby in most states (they either lie, or one adopts and the other must apply as "co-parent"), but Michelle Duggar can pop out 16 kids and no one says, oh my freaking God, stop it, stop it now, you thoughtless, selfish, baby-drunk people.

No, no one says that. That would be mean.

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