Wed, 11 Jan 2006 14:52:25 +0000>>>Will,>>I'm sorry that you have apparently decided to not do what needs to be done >to get your mom help for her illness. Your inaction means you have chosen >the status quo, a very sick Mom over a healthy Mom and your loving wife and >child. You mentioned that Anna is up tight all the time. In large part >that is because she sees that you are not willing or able to protect her >from Cheryl's deranged intrusion. You are at the two minute warning. In >very short order, your Mom will complete the process of destroying your >marriage, she will lose both your trailers, she will distract you out of >school, and eliminate any career focus you might have had. You will then >be left in a dead end job that you hate, care taking your dysfunctional >live-in Mom and paying child support. In advance I will remind you that >you will have created this outcome from choices you made in January of >2006.>>Even at the two minute warning it's not too late. You could decide today >to enthusiastically pursue solutions to your Mom's escalating self >destruction. You could stop trying to make her comfortable and begin to >get her healthy. That means no more sighing and squirming on your part. I >never imagined that not confronting your Mom was more important to you than >saving your marriage. But that's the message that you not pursueing >solutions over your Holiday break clearly sends. And apparently you are >not willing to do anything that may upset or provoke Crazy Cheryl. But it >ain't over. Decide today that you want to help her. Learn what to do. >Then do it. Then it suddenly becomes the happiest time of your life. You >have a child on the way, you are finishing up school and about to launch an >exciting career. And Gramma will be on the mend, creating her own life and >not sucking the life out of you and your family.