Dearest Anna,I am going to give you the best advice I can as a person who really caresabout you and your new family. I think that we are more than pals or friendsat this point, and I really look at you as a best sister friend, so as thatkind of friend I will just be blunt. Carmina is disgusting and you are betteroff without her. She is negative, dramatic, a bad mom, dirty and trashy,obviously doesn't care about her body etc. You are drastically too good forher.I know that you have been friends with her for a very long time. But, thepast is always evaporating. You have to be here now. I think that you haveenough on your plate with being pregnant, being unhappy with your workplace,and being married. You shouldn't worry about some woman who is going make youfeel sad, angry, negative etc. because you DON'T deserve that.I think you should start over fresh in the friend department. I am honored tobe your friend and I only want to build you up and help you out. I think youshould seek out others who only have these same intentions.I hope that this is helpful! Call me if you need to talk :).Carla